Arrogance (Kibr)

Arrogance is one of the most destructive diseases of the heart. It involves rejecting the truth and looking down upon others with contempt.

Definition

The Prophet ﷺ defined arrogance as "rejecting the truth and despising people" (Muslim). It is a disease that prevents one from accepting guidance and recognizing their own faults.

Signs of Arrogance

• Refusing to accept the truth when it comes from someone perceived as "lesser"
• Looking down on others due to wealth, status, knowledge, or lineage
• Feeling superior to others in worship or righteousness
• Difficulty in accepting criticism or advice
• Unwillingness to apologize or admit mistakes

Islamic Perspective

Allah says in the Quran: "And do not turn your cheek [in contempt] toward people and do not walk through the earth exultantly. Indeed, Allah does not like everyone self-deluded and boastful." (Luqman 31:18)

The Prophet ﷺ warned: "No one who has the weight of a seed of arrogance in his heart will enter Paradise." (Muslim)

Treatment

1. Remember your origin: Reflect on being created from dust and clay
2. Remember death: Remember that death humbles all
3. Study the lives of the righteous: Learn from their humility
4. Practice gratitude: Recognize all blessings come from Allah
5. Seek knowledge: True knowledge increases humility
6. Associate with the humble: Learn from those who embody humility